Robert J. Saferstein has a personal stake in the group he founded, Friday Night Lights. Saferstein, a gay professional in Manhattan who was raised in a Conservative/Orthodox home, craved a space where gay men of New York could gather for the holiest night of the week, debate religion, and maybe share a martini or two. The result is a shomer Shabbat-friendly environment that’s also tailored to fit the tastes of those who wouldn’t know a Sabbath candle from an incense stick. “I wanted to elevate …More